Do you really know who you’re meant to be with?
A soul mate is different from a soul tie. A soul mate is someone who you attach to in a healthy way. A soul tie can feel like a soul mate bond between two, but it can turn negative really fast.
So, what is a soul tie? Unlike a soul mate,except a soul mate is who you’re destined to be with while a soul tie is someone your “soul” is stuck to.
and you poured your heart and soul into that person only for things to end. You could possibly have a soul tie with that person. At first, it can feel like nothing you’ve ever experienced in your life on a deep soul level.
How can you tell you? Telling yourself that you will always love this person until the end of time and by making yourself readily available to them whenever they’re in need of assistance.
You tell yourself you’re just being a nice person and hopefully, they would do the same for you. But if they are not putting in the same amount of effort as you then you should try to break that soul tie.
and your zodiac sign, this is how having that one soulmate, that actually is a wrong soul tie, could affect you and how to break the bond.
ARIES (March 21 – April 19)
Someone who makes you feel vulnerable can be exciting and terrifying at the same time.
Your ex “soul mate” who still holds your heart in their hands can push you to the point where you have to decide to either continue running to them or to finally cut them off for good if they’re not reciprocating your feelings.
If you are in a situation with an unfavorable soul tie the best thing for you is to stay busy. Take on a new hobby, hang out with your friends more often, take on a new project at work. Soon enough they’ll be out of your head.
TAURUS (April 20 – May 20)
Having a soul tie that brings you comfort can be an enlightening feeling for you. At the same time, when that loss of comfort does not allow you to relax in your own home, it can be disturbing.
If you feel like you can not find comfort in your bed without this person then they are probably a soul tie. Which only means it is time for you to gather all your friends for one fun-filled Netflix night to help you forget about your sorrows.
GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Having someone you can confide in is a blessing to you and your continuous train of thoughts. Being alone can be slow torture to the point that you’ll wish for someone you can no longer have, that person you used to have so much fun with.
But instead of wishing for someone who once held your heart, you should carry on a conversation with your friends. Immersing yourself in your friends is a great idea for breaking a soul tie.
More than likely your friends were there before your “soul mate” entered your life and they’ll be there afterward to help guide you back to happiness.
CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
“Home is where the heart is” is not just a saying for a Cancer. Love is important to you and so is the security that’s supposed to come along with it.
You’d do just about anything for your partner because you hope they would do the same. But, if they do not reciprocate your affection and services then it may be time to leave.
So, if you need to rid yourself of that soul tie head back home to your family and spend time with them. They’ll help you get out of your slump and you’ll feel real unconditional love along the way.
LEO (July 23 – August 22)
Not being treated like royalty is a crime in your eyes so when someone does not make you a priority it can be very frustrating. There is a difference between acting like a spoiled brat and knowing what isn’t for you.
If you feel like you’re not being treated like you deserve to find everything that reminds you of both of you such as, old photos, mementos, and notes. Store them away so you can no longer see the person who’s done you wrong and confide in your friends.
VIRGO (August 23 – September 22)
Perfection is key to you, Virgo. So, having something to prove to your partner can be very stressful. If they don’t give you the time of day it is not your fault.
People change and that does not necessarily mean you have to change yourself to get that approval.
Start some productive work: spruce up your resume, clean up around the house, go through your wardrobe and donate.
LIBRA (September 23 – October 22)
Feeling lonely is not a great feeling for you. But having someone to go to when you are feeling lonely can be great if they treat you right.
So, if you
’re feeling lonely and your “soul mate” is doing nothing to help then it is time to start making a decision. I know making decisions can be quite the hassle sometimes but things need to be done.
A good way to help get your mind off of things is to embark on a shopping spree. Buying new items and flaunting them off to your friends, in a friendly manner, can be therapeutic.
SCORPIO (October 23 – November 21)
Your passion drives you to love someone to the fullest extent but that undying, intense love can be toxic when it is unrequited. Feelings of jealousy can take over your better judgment.
If your soul tie is a trigger for your jealousy then it’s time to let that person go forever and it’s time for you to put that passion in other places.
Maybe you could focus more on your work or go on some dates. But letting this “soul mate” cloud your mind is not the best course of action for you.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 – December 21)
Living life on the edge is fun to you. Having that person who makes you happy but is not yours just yet can be a challenge. However, this can be detrimental to your mental and emotional well being.
Feeling like you’re not good enough is a huge blow to you and it may be better to cut things off. The best way to do that is to take a road trip!
Experiencing concerts, parties, and other out of the house events can help you find the fire that was once extinguished.
CAPRICORN (December 22 – January 19)
Having that person who has a continuous hold on you can make you feel like your life is not in your control. This can be very unsettling for you since you usually have a good handle on everything.
But if you feel like things out spiraling out of hand maybe it’s time to take a step back and reevaluate somethings.
If you want to leave your past in the past, continue in your daily life without them. Go to movies by yourself, go to the mall by yourself and spend time with friends without bringing up your love life.
AQUARIUS (January 20 – February 18)
As an Aquarius, we want that person who understands us. That person who could provide us with an adventure but if we know it is not the best idea to keep them around things could get a little complicated.
Thinking with our heads and not with our hearts can get us in trouble sometimes but in a situation where you feel used, it’s time to finally walk away.
Take time to open yourself up to your closest friends. More than likely they’ll know what to do to help pull you out this rough patch in life.
PISCES (February 19 – March 20)
Life can be tough and as a Pisces, you need to escape reality sometimes. So, knowing you have someone to escape from reality with can be reassuring.
But when your “soul mate” becomes a stranger to you, it can be very bothersome. Now you may feel like you no longer have that escape from the trials of life anymore.
However, one way for you to fix this problem is to escape on your own. Take a mini vacation yourself so you can appreciate being alone again.
Not all soul ties are bad, by the way. An ex-partner could stay in your life and help make it better. But if you know that old fling is doing nothing but driving you crazy it’s time to put an end to things.